This will be my 300th post on this blog. Some people will not understand why I choose to mark that milestone with a collection of men with a band on their ring finger. Being a married man, I always feel a kinship with guys who are wearing a wedding band. For some who wear it, it may not mean anything other than they like having it on that finger and others might be married to another man. However, it gives me a warm feeling inside that there are others in the world like me who like the tradition of wearing a wedding ring.
I know being married to a woman and having sex with men makes me a cheater and a hypocrite. I am not going to rationalize my situation to anyone. It is illogical and warped but it works in my situation. So enjoy the men, I certainly am.
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My husband and I wear matching wedding rings. I resisted at first (I hadn't seen many opposite-sex marriages I wanted to emulate), but now I'm proud to wear mine. I figure they can mean whatever we want them to mean. It has led to some misunderstandings, though. We had a guy in to repair the washing machine one time, and as he was packing up to leave he said, "Well, tell your wife it'll probably last another 15 years." I didn't bother to correct him.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on your 300th post. I feel this post is a great tribute to your situation and thank you for sharing it and a bit more about your personal situation. No judgement here whatsoever, sending hugs out your way.
ReplyDeleteCheers for 300 more and then some :) 🍾
ReplyDeleteHow I could count the many times did married men came to the stripper revues I worked for back in the 1990’s tryin’ to get at my ass in the champagne rooms as we called them then, or slipped notes in my thong. Plenty of extra appreciation and attention in the champagne rooms.
-CA jock